im very down to earth fun loving guy, single and really taking the opportunity to really press in hard the great things the Lord has for me my desire of my heard is to have a family one day, i have learned alot from the way i once used to live as for dating goes, i believe dating creates an artificial environment that doesnt require a person to accurately portray his or her positive and negative characteristics . On a date , a person can charm his or her way into a dates heart . He drives a nice car and pays for everything , she looks great . But who cares?! being fun on a date doesnt say anything about a person's character or ability to be a good husband or wife.  Personality is what others see but ur character is who u are when no one else is around.